I Know What You Need

Are you bored of of  responsibility, routine and always taking the lead in the bedroom. Do you have feminine urges hidden deep in your soul? Perhaps you secretly desire to be led astray by a powerful Milf who’ll transform you into her pretty little plaything and use you as She pleases. Are you yearning to embrace your feminine side and lounge around wearing lingerie as I command you to do things that make your heart race. To be tarted up then ravished like the sluts in the porn you watch. If this applies to you, I specialise in feminisation and I’m here for you.

 As a Mistress I feel it’s most beneficial for a male to drop his ego and indulge in a few hours of emasculation and feminisation. Let Milfy take control, enabling you to switch off the part of the brain responsible for making decisions and allow the part that controls pleasure and desire to rule. Surrender to a softer sensual side and be elegantly cross dressed or to shameless slutty bimbofication. 

Psychology of SissyHood

If you are new to Feminization and feeling apprehensive don’t worry this is quite normal. You have to be brave to go against the gender roles society has conditioned us to believe are appropriate. Of course, it’s not always easy to accept sissy tendencies.  Sensitivity and gentleness are frowned upon. Whenever men show emotion or don’t act in a traditionally macho way, accusations of being effeminate and acting like a sissy are thrown at them. Sometimes sissies are called Gay. No you’re only Gay if you want to be exclusively with males.  Some sissies are Bi curious but let’s discuss that later. 

But yes the term sissy is often used as a slur so it’s a brave step to confide that you want be feminine now and then. Luckily it’s much easer these days  find an understanding mentor like myself who will help you remove shame, guilt and fear from cross dressing and sissification.  I’ll help you accept you owe it to yourself to take time out for self care, to be who you truly want to be and in touch with your feminine side without judgement. Allowing  yourself this is truly liberating and will set you free.

Toxic masculinity is Neutralised by Healing Femininity

Stifling a part of yourself is a heavy and lonely burden. Mistress is a portal to the abandonment you can achieve when you start to free yourself from inhibitions.  Transporting you away from humdrum reality and responsibility to a safe place where you can quench your feminine desires with someone you trust.  Cross dressing can be therapy as much as a fetish and you’re in safe hands with Me holding the reins. I truly enjoy seeing your feminine alter ego emerge as I do your make over. Some of my most rewarding and enjoyable sessions are seeing sissies blossom into who they want to be.

There are many different reasons for cross dressing, some truly wish they were Women and want to fully embrace their femininity and have their true feminine side appreciated, they don’t see themselves as sissies at all.  Others are very happy being male and like to be  pressurised into it as more of a forced femme, humiliation type session. Whether you’re a shy cross dresser, a fully fledged sissy slut or something in between. I can coach you into to being feminine, more submissive and into who over ever you envisage yourself to be. Over the years what I have seen hundreds of sissies, some are shy and sweet whilst others are outrageous show offs or shameless harlots. Below I describe each type.  When you contact me regarding a sissy session  it will help if you let me know which type or types of sissy you identify with. 

The Sissy Slut

The sissy slut is sexually greedy and always ready for some action. Dressing up slutty puts Her in the mood for filth and gives off a clear signal to others that She’s a horny little bitch and up for it. If Mistress is not around she might dress up anyway,  play some sissy porn and get the poppers and her toys out. She is insatiable and likes to be used and abused. She can be spoilt if she doesn’t get what she wants and chastity is often needed for at least part of the session. She identifies as straight but when sissified She’s bi and may fantasise about serving a Trans Mistress or a bull. Perfect session would be being pimped out.

The Sissy Maid

The sissy maid loves Strong Dominant Women and she loves to feel important and become a useful cog in Mistresses busy life. She takes pleasure in serving her Mistress and has exceptional domestic skills. Serving tea, dusting, cleaning, hand washing lingerie, polishing shoes or latex. She is the perfect hostess when Mistress has company. Her perfect session is wearing a PVC sissy maid outfit attending to Mistress. Giving Mistress a foot massage, helping Mistress get ready in her boudoir before surrendering to Her.

The Alpha Sissy

The alpha sissy is the last male you would expect to have sissy tendencies but alpha in the streets often equals sissy in the sheets. alphas excel in life. Successful career,  sporty with the perfect trophy wife or girlfriend….. but success comes with a price. When you are at the top within a testosterone fuelled environment,  vulnerability and emotions are suppressed which lead to stress.  It’s essential for the alpha to have a safe place to drop his toxic masculine ego, where the excessive masculine Yin can be balanced out with the delicate Feminine Yang. This is just as necessary for males who work in alpha environments such as the financial or construction industry or the armed forces who are expected to act macho to fit in. An alpha sissies perfect session is lounging on pink satin sheets, dressed up as a bimbo talking about all things girly then getting down on her knees and surrendering to Mistress

The Sissy Baby

The sissy baby is a sissy ABDL and just wants to be taken care of by her Mummy, Nanny or Mistress. Soft music, baby talk and plenty of hands on playtime. Her session is all about complete surrender, lots of stroking and TLC. Dressing up, diaper checks and playtime all day long. Her perfect session is diapered in nappies with frilly knickers over the top, dressed in pink satin in a giant crib with Mistress bottle feeding her followed by a naughty bedtime story then lying on her back as she surrenders to Mistress.

The Sissy Starlet

The sissy starlet is an attention whore and an exhibitionist. She wants to dress up and be fabulous and every one to be looking at her. Her transformation will be sensational. The whole shebang, wig, make up, eyelashes, fake boobs, stockings, heels and a million dollar outfit. She might be into latex and transform into a Rubber Doll. Before She is dressed up She may feel nervous once She is transformed Her personality undergoes a huge change whilst dressed up and in character. As a male she is pleasantly normal,  feminized She is a bombshell, flirty and seductive. The perfect session for the sissy starlet is accompanying Mistress to a private fetish party or if she is feeling daring to a bar where cross dressing is acceptable. Some starlets are shy in public and prefer to dress up and party at home. 

The Shameful Sissy

The shameful sissy loves to be humiliated. The more mortifying her disgrace, the more she is aroused. She exists to be used, mocked and humiliated. The threat of Public humiliation is a huge fantasy. Taking a sissy whilst still in male attire to lingerie stores and holding bras and panties against them, while her cheeks burn hot with shame is fun.  I also love insisting my sissies wear bra and panties under male clothing, then pinging her bra strap or checking the panties discreetly in public.  In private she will be dressed up like a cheap tart and encouraged to dance, parade about, display herself to Mistress and be threatened with exposure. SPH, chastity and Forced Bi are often a part of her sessions and her perfect session would be in a pink chastity cage on her knees surrendering to Mistress whilst others watched.

Crossdressers

Cross dressers are usually much more subtle than sissies. Sissies like to stand out while Crossdressers like to fit in. Crossdressers usually get on with  Women  much more than men and struggle with traditional masculine pursuits, strongly dislikes lad culture and might secretly wish they was born a female. Crossdressers  usually prefer a classier attire rather than the full on slutty look. She definitely feels more comfortable in female clothing. She might wear them to relax, it’s definitely not always a sexual thing for her and essential for her spiritual well being to embrace her comforting femininity and truly relax as she allows the delicate gentle submissive yin part of her personality to shine.  She may also one day want to venture out in public dressed as female. Not in a showy off way, she is a little shy. If she is confident She passes then maybe a drive  along Southport seafront or drinks in Manchester might be possible before surrendering to Mistress of course.

Grooming –

When you see some of the successful sissies on social media, remember It took lots of practice to look as good as they do. It takes a lot of coaching, effort and time to learn how to be convincingly pretty and sexy.  How to act is also something that needs to be learned. Everything from walking, talking, speaking and serving can be taught to sissies who I feel are worthy and have potential to be a good sissy slut, sissy maid or both. Your time with me could include some or any of the following:

Sissy Makeovers  – Make up, Nails, Hair, Wigs, Hair removal.

Sissy Wardrobe  – I have a wardrobe full of pretty frilly lingerie, stockings, tutus and tight slutty dresses as well as more casual and publicly acceptable wear for outside trips if they are required. I have a huge wig collection as well as shoes in sizes from 7 to 12 and lots of gorgeous accessories. If you have a specific item you need we can buy it together or I can shop for you prior to your session. 

Sissy Deportment –  This is one of the trickiest things to learn. It’s all about body language and how you project yourself so you are an object of desire not ridicule. How to address and attend to me in private and how to behave in public. How to make an entrance or blend in with the crowd. How to flirt, how to be ladylike or slutty. How to walk, talk, laugh.How to use your eyes, your hands, your lips and your tongue.

Sissy Servitude – The Art of serving me – from making me a cup of tea to helping me dress. Helping me take care of my wardrobe such as hand washing lingerie or polishing shoes and latex. Worshipping my feet or my strap on 

Sissy Roleplays–  Some sissies just like to be trained and to serve, others like to act out their sissyness in a roleplay,  as well as being a superb sissy trainer, I am a fetish actress and excellent at role play. See the Role plays in my Roleplay section.

Sissy Photo Shoots –  Can be done in session by myself or with a professional photographer.